I want to preface this by saying that i am obviously drawing from personal experience , but this is a culmination of things i have seen or have been a part of , as a customer and as an employee. This is in no way an attack on , or reference to, a single business.
While there are things in this industry i dont know about, or am not 100% privy too, the people who are knee deep in those parts of the venture are missing out , or ignoring alot of things that those of us on the bottom floor (who are paying attention) get to witness. So this blog is going to be sort of an opinionated "How-to" guide, on avoiding those pitfalls Please overlook the arrogance, i have never owned a strip club and i am not assuming i can do your job better than you, this is just my diorama of things over looked.
1: The rules of the Club
Every club has a different set of rules, established by the club to avoid legal issues, but as soon as there are no cops looking, these rules are tossed out the window. Its like clubs are ignorant to the idea that these rules also can MAKE the club money and KEEP it there.
How?
Its a fairly easy concept... take TWENTY hot girls.. and a strict set of rules in a gorgeous club, with good music and liquor. If its in the right area, these girls will make money. The Club will make money.. it will be packed, and if the guys wanna get a handjob , it will be AFTER they get excited in the club , then go home to get one from their wife, or the dirty strip club up the street.
Now...Insert 2 ugly girls, lets not pretend like we dont know who these girls are, the ones who couldnt have gotten a job at hooters, and sure as hell shouldnt be in here naked.
Now.. we have 20 hot girls, who are obeying the rules and making money, and 2 less attractive girls who when they obey the rules, make LESS money.
So, to make the same amount of money the hotter girls are making, the 2 ugly girls break rules, they are touching and grinding and blowing or going home with guys in an effort to compete with a skill set that the more attractive girls dont want to and shouldnt have to exercise.
So some of the attractive girls quit, because the more attractive and classier girls arent going to break the rules and lower their own moral compass to compete with girls that shouldnt be there in the first place.
So now we have 16 hot girls and 4 girls who shouldnt be here... and some of the attractive girls start breaking the rules too , in an effort to keep their job and keep the money coming.
SO what do the less attractive girls do? They do same thing again,and lower their standards to compete with the lookers.
Wash , rinse , and repeat, enough and hire a couple girls just because a manager sees a chance to get a blow job and suddenly you have a club full of average, and below average girls in bathing suits.. who are doing everything shy of getting pregnant to make half the money they were making WHEN EVERYONE HAD TO FOLLOW THE RULES.
Basically.. .the premise is REEEEEEALLLY simple.. why pay a hot girl.. to look at her.. when you can pay and ugly girl to blow you while you look at the hot girl for free?
And in that situation.. if you were the hot girl.. why would you work there?
Then as a customer.. why would you go anywhere where there were no hot girls?
See what happened there?!?! WHY IS THIS SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND?!?
2. Management.... fucking management....
Under what premise did this word even find its way into some of these peoples portfolios? How is it that a strip club seems like the only place on the planet that you can be a shitty , always late for work, womanizing pervert one night, and everyones boss the next?
I also work at a consulting company that helps open and close businesses, helping people trim the fat and minimize loss in their day to day functions and the one thing i see more than anything else, is how management performance can make or break a business. That said, to this day i have not seen a strip club with a management structure that i thought would work past the end of the month, and most of the time i was right.
If i owned a strip club , the hierarchy would be as follows :
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A... SINGLE.. SOLITARY.. General Manager. Someone who reported directly to me, and who everyone else reported to. No micro managing, no skipping steps. My GM would be GOD and everyone from the owners, investors, and employees would answer directly to him or her as long as the doors were unlocked.
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Security manager. There would be ONE, he would report to the GM and his team would report to HIM, he would be responsible for all security matters.
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House mom... A FUCKING WOMAN.. no... i mean NOOOOOOOOOOO dancer on this PLANET is totally comfortable with these male house moms.. what the fuck are you thinking? And as far as a house moms job? Shes an employee, not a manager.. Her responsibilities should be placed accordingly.
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Bar Manager..and a head waitress... this should be pretty obvious.. and most clubs get this right.
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DJ... is a dj.. .NOT a manager.. NOT in control of my girls.. and these clubs who pay their djs some retarded insane amount of money per night to play whatever the hell they want to play.. and then harass the girls to give them an insane percentage of their tips, while ignoring their wants and needs...
Is crazy to me, if a dj is just going to come in and just get drunk and drugged up and ignore the girls.. then the question isnt just why are YOU paying them... but why are you expecting your girls to?
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There are other needs, on a club by club basis im sure but, here is the one i think most clubs are in desperate need of..
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Clubs need to have a single floor manager on a per night basis, she should be one of your dancers, she should be on salary because her job as a manager will supersede her duties as a dancer. She should be dressed similar to the dancers but but better. She should be one of the classiest and most attractive girls you have, she should be willing to be there early , and leave late, There should be ONE main person who occupies this job title, obviously she cant work every night, but their should be a single person who identifies with the job title. She should always be sober enough to do her job, always the best total package of uniform , makeup , hair and looks. She will be the one girls go to first with any problems, her job will be to make sure all of the girls are following the rules and making money.
Basically, there needs to be a girl, who is also a dancer, who you can trust, on your floor. As an acting manager.
To be continued...
Saturday, November 26, 2011
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Arrogance
This is going to be a very specific blog, but im sure this specific incident is something that is mirrored over and over again throughout all of our lives, so im going to assume this is an issue we have all dealt with at some point. Whether it be a pin head , son of the owner, boss, or just the random friend of a friend jackass that thinks he knows best, and that his opinion on life is all that matters.
This blog is to everyone who has ever had some ignorant, middle management asshole tell you how to do your job. Even if you outranked them by so much that it was hard to comprehend the audacity it took to stand their with their hands on their hips in the first place.
Just because you started a myspace, facebook or blogger page, doesnt make you the CEO of SHIT. Youre not corporate, youre not a boss, youre just a person with a social networking page. Owning a camera, doesnt make you a company, it doesnt provide any magical rights and it doesnt mean you are now a trademarked , copy written producer. On the fern flop, having some shitty pictures, no matter how amazing "ur ppl thnk u look ryt nw".. doesnt make you a model.. and owning a percent of a company equivalent to the square footage of their bathroom urinal.. doesnt make you GOD.
Or how about the piece of shit who will only do something if its THEIR idea, you know who im talking about, the person who you KNOW loves the color pink, and would pick pink a billion times, but the ONE time someone says pink first, is the first douche bag to try to sell you on the color purple.
The same kind of self important assholes who drop trash in a parking lot 25 feet from a can, or open a door into yours, and their door is the first, and ONLY door they check.
I think when girls say POWER is sexy , some guys get it WAY wrong, and maybe.. some girls get it wrong too and chase this fake ass , borrowed, version of power around enough that people are convinced it is real. Power isnt leaving your drinks in the cupholders at the theater because "fuck him let the usher get it" its being secure enough to not have to look for power in such a bullshit and menial way.
These things all seem like common sense.. but we live in an era where sense.. is just not common.
Sunday, September 4, 2011
Why are there so many thieves?!
Ok so we all hate people who steal , but there is a lesser end to most evils.. there is the dangerous driver who barrels through the streets drunk, and then there is the person doing 80 in a 65. Sure by definition they are both reckless drivers but even Dante agrees there is a special hell for the liquor fueled nascar, that the casual speeder will never experience.
Ill even go as far as to exclude the thieves who rob you to your face, lets pretend for the sake of this blog that having the balls to hold a gun , knife , bat, etc.. and TELLING me im being robbed, excludes you from this rant.
This isnt about those kinda thieves.
This is about the person who bumps your car in a parking spot and then knowingly drives away, about the person who makes a commitment , then makes everyone go out of their way and bend schedules to fit them, then makes people wait.. to never show.. this is about the waitress at Hooters who casually tells the other girls regular customers, that his favorite waitress has a boyfriend/husband or kid, whether its true or not. Just to pull him away from her.. even if she knows he will never sit with her, as long as if shes not making it, no one is.
We focus too hard on the criminal acts that take intent in this world, we worry more about the weed smoker than the person who cant hold doors and more about the person who robbed the bank than the person who just watched you drop $20 on the ground and instead of telling you, watched you walk away so they could sneak it into their pocket.
The fact is criminal intent is rarely as vulgar as criminal mentality, criminal intent takes motive, and alot of times motive can be rationalized in one form or another, guy killed the dude who shoved his wife? I can see that.. people snap.. guy cant hold a door half a second longer to let the 70 year old lady through it? There is no rationale to that.
Although this is all theft.. in one form or another let me tighten this up before i get too off topic.
And im not going to try to pretty this up.. im just going to give you some examples of common theft i think is avoidable and ignorant.
1: The person on the way to the checkout counter at walmart, with $300 worth of shit in an over flowing buggy, trying to race you there so you have to stand behind them holding a loaf of bread, a gallon of milk and a $10 bill for 25 minutes while they work their way through 2 weeks worth of groceries.
Really? you had to steal a portion of my day from me, for what? Had you have not ran for the first time in your life, to beat me to the counter ida been gone before you got there.
2: Red light racers, the douche bag who blocks intersections and wont let anyone get out of parking lots so he can speed to a redlight.. and then STOP. This guy and the person who wont let you over when you have your blinker on and are doing everything but get out and stop traffic by hand to get in.. should both die in a flaming pile of each others debris.
3: The fore mentioned girls who talk about other girls, in waitress or entertaining jobs, who will walk up to a dude who they KNOW is not into them, KNOW that the customer will NEVER give them money and still "accidentally" drop in casually that his favorite employee is in some way unavailable.
Btw yall arent just theives you are dumb as fuck because not only did you just steal from the employee, the door person, the venue, the bartender , and whoever else was involved.. but you hurt YOUR money too because if HE wont come back .. it means his friends arent either and THEY might have been into you.
4: Bums.. yea.. i said it.. homeless people.. who steal signs.. how come all the homeless people i see are asking for money while holding one of those plastic signs they stole from someone and wrote on the back of... why.. would i give money.. to a thief?!??!
5: Employees not doing their job, youre stealing from the company, who now has to hire more worthless fucks like you to get the job done, who then has to make the price reflect your lazy ass.. which in turn.. steals from me. Right.. you .. mr cart pusher at Sweet Bay.. youre a criminal.. you have stolen from every customer who has ever been there to purchase groceries.
Im sure you have 100 examples of your own, so im not gonna drag this one out.. all im trying to say is that the person who made the news for hunting down and beating the shit out of the guy who left his daughter on the side of the road for not putting out on prom night.. will NEVER effect your life.. Casey Anthony will never baby sit your child.. but those 85 worthless ass city employees who they hired to do a 32 person job.. .has had their hand in your pocket quietly stealing from you every day for the last 30 years.. the parking attendant who doesnt attend shit but the cash box, while you are responsible to repair the damage that happened right in front of him, the lazy waitress who you had to beg for your 3rd and final sweet tea when you could have finished 5 just because she had better shit to do than her job... the 500 person staff at the local McDonalds driving the price of a 2 person lunch at micky d's to Twenty Bucks..
Those people DO effect you.. daily.. those people are criminals.. this complacency.. this society of not slapping someones hand until its finally too late is disgusting.
Stop worrying about the ONE person who got robbed at ybor last night by the guy who was desperate enough to man the fuck up and take it.. lets worry about the 2 managers 2 cashiers and 3 techs at Tire Kingdom handling 6 cars a day.. and the fact that everyone who goes there gets robbed by the rising cost of laziness.
We are focusing on celebrity theft but no one cares that cable is $300 a month ?!?! Who the fuck cares that an escalade got stolen in Hyde park last night.. EVERYONE WHO PAYS FOR INSURANCE in AMERICA got robbed last night!!!!
This is just gonna turn into a rant so im gonna stop.. but fuck people.. maybe if we stop letting the cart jockey at Walmart steal from us EVERY DAY then they WONT think its ok to rob us in person on occasion.
Ill even go as far as to exclude the thieves who rob you to your face, lets pretend for the sake of this blog that having the balls to hold a gun , knife , bat, etc.. and TELLING me im being robbed, excludes you from this rant.
This isnt about those kinda thieves.
This is about the person who bumps your car in a parking spot and then knowingly drives away, about the person who makes a commitment , then makes everyone go out of their way and bend schedules to fit them, then makes people wait.. to never show.. this is about the waitress at Hooters who casually tells the other girls regular customers, that his favorite waitress has a boyfriend/husband or kid, whether its true or not. Just to pull him away from her.. even if she knows he will never sit with her, as long as if shes not making it, no one is.
We focus too hard on the criminal acts that take intent in this world, we worry more about the weed smoker than the person who cant hold doors and more about the person who robbed the bank than the person who just watched you drop $20 on the ground and instead of telling you, watched you walk away so they could sneak it into their pocket.
The fact is criminal intent is rarely as vulgar as criminal mentality, criminal intent takes motive, and alot of times motive can be rationalized in one form or another, guy killed the dude who shoved his wife? I can see that.. people snap.. guy cant hold a door half a second longer to let the 70 year old lady through it? There is no rationale to that.
Although this is all theft.. in one form or another let me tighten this up before i get too off topic.
And im not going to try to pretty this up.. im just going to give you some examples of common theft i think is avoidable and ignorant.
1: The person on the way to the checkout counter at walmart, with $300 worth of shit in an over flowing buggy, trying to race you there so you have to stand behind them holding a loaf of bread, a gallon of milk and a $10 bill for 25 minutes while they work their way through 2 weeks worth of groceries.
Really? you had to steal a portion of my day from me, for what? Had you have not ran for the first time in your life, to beat me to the counter ida been gone before you got there.
2: Red light racers, the douche bag who blocks intersections and wont let anyone get out of parking lots so he can speed to a redlight.. and then STOP. This guy and the person who wont let you over when you have your blinker on and are doing everything but get out and stop traffic by hand to get in.. should both die in a flaming pile of each others debris.
3: The fore mentioned girls who talk about other girls, in waitress or entertaining jobs, who will walk up to a dude who they KNOW is not into them, KNOW that the customer will NEVER give them money and still "accidentally" drop in casually that his favorite employee is in some way unavailable.
Btw yall arent just theives you are dumb as fuck because not only did you just steal from the employee, the door person, the venue, the bartender , and whoever else was involved.. but you hurt YOUR money too because if HE wont come back .. it means his friends arent either and THEY might have been into you.
4: Bums.. yea.. i said it.. homeless people.. who steal signs.. how come all the homeless people i see are asking for money while holding one of those plastic signs they stole from someone and wrote on the back of... why.. would i give money.. to a thief?!??!
5: Employees not doing their job, youre stealing from the company, who now has to hire more worthless fucks like you to get the job done, who then has to make the price reflect your lazy ass.. which in turn.. steals from me. Right.. you .. mr cart pusher at Sweet Bay.. youre a criminal.. you have stolen from every customer who has ever been there to purchase groceries.
Im sure you have 100 examples of your own, so im not gonna drag this one out.. all im trying to say is that the person who made the news for hunting down and beating the shit out of the guy who left his daughter on the side of the road for not putting out on prom night.. will NEVER effect your life.. Casey Anthony will never baby sit your child.. but those 85 worthless ass city employees who they hired to do a 32 person job.. .has had their hand in your pocket quietly stealing from you every day for the last 30 years.. the parking attendant who doesnt attend shit but the cash box, while you are responsible to repair the damage that happened right in front of him, the lazy waitress who you had to beg for your 3rd and final sweet tea when you could have finished 5 just because she had better shit to do than her job... the 500 person staff at the local McDonalds driving the price of a 2 person lunch at micky d's to Twenty Bucks..
Those people DO effect you.. daily.. those people are criminals.. this complacency.. this society of not slapping someones hand until its finally too late is disgusting.
Stop worrying about the ONE person who got robbed at ybor last night by the guy who was desperate enough to man the fuck up and take it.. lets worry about the 2 managers 2 cashiers and 3 techs at Tire Kingdom handling 6 cars a day.. and the fact that everyone who goes there gets robbed by the rising cost of laziness.
We are focusing on celebrity theft but no one cares that cable is $300 a month ?!?! Who the fuck cares that an escalade got stolen in Hyde park last night.. EVERYONE WHO PAYS FOR INSURANCE in AMERICA got robbed last night!!!!
This is just gonna turn into a rant so im gonna stop.. but fuck people.. maybe if we stop letting the cart jockey at Walmart steal from us EVERY DAY then they WONT think its ok to rob us in person on occasion.
Friday, September 2, 2011
This.. is part of why my views on abortion will never change.
"Naw boo u do miss Tampa kuz i knw i do! Um so readii 2 kum bak home nah but i dun got knokd up n daytona but umma go bak home pretty soon!"
People really talk like this? And shes prego??!!?!? Anyone wanna ask me again why im pro-choice?!
People really talk like this? And shes prego??!!?!? Anyone wanna ask me again why im pro-choice?!
Monday, August 15, 2011
Its all in a handshake.
Well the title says it all.. a handshake.. it says so much about a person, im gonna skip all the good stuff this time and tell you exactly where im going with this..
If a man feels compelled to squeeze your hand like a mongoloid neanderthal, he has nothing more to offer you than the strength he just asserted.. and if he squeezes a womans hand like that?
Hes not worth the sperm his father wasted on creating him.
Really, what does it prove to yourself of others when you grip with vice like fury? That your lack of social etiquette has left you alone on so many nights that your right forearm has the strength of 10 average men with personalities and sex lives?
When a man grips my hand like hes trying to crush a soft fruit, all i can think of is the fruit he is acting like. Are you trying to (fail) assert some alpha male dominance? Are you trying to let me know your stronger and more powerful than me and therefore more of a man than me?
Im a woman... im not your competition for alpha male dominance.. although in the jungle the biggest competition is for the best mates.. so maybe my previous comment was a correct assumption and youre just letting me know that im not match for you... and all the hot guys i might be after are all yours for the taking.
And if thats it.. you can have them.. im not going to arm wrestle a man over the man he wants..
Im gonna get a little more personal and tell you the event that provoked this blog.
But first a little side track.. ONCE AGAIN.. you garbage ass minimum wage, no w-2 having ass , get your ass whipped in a real fight ass SECURITY GUARDS need to know your fucking role, you might beat off to UFC videos and get turned on by sweaty dudes in underwear grabbing each other.. but that does NOT make you a tough guy, if you were youd be in a ring paying taxes on your earnings.. not working at walmart during the day and supplementing it with your low powered ego trip of a job title.. there are some really cool, really nice guys who work security and im obviously not talking about you.. but the other 90% of you.. are a fucking joke.. and if youre a security MANAGER.. youre a joke.. telling a joke.. and if youre a security guard ACTING like a manager.. youre a fake ass joke.. telling a joke.. and its.. well.. you win.. you.. really are funny.
So this midget ass 5'7 ish security guard started at this club i work at occasionally, the first time we met he did the typical napoleon complex handshake where he nearly got on his tippy toes to eek out that 5'9 he might just pull off.. pushed his shoulder in.. hip forward and gripped my hand like it was his roomates penis, and then proceeded to squeeze and shake it just the same..
REALLY?!? Is all i can think.. i called him the first name that came to mind , laughed at his pathetic and ignorant attempt to assert himself and went on with my night.
The next night he walks up to me and shoves his phone in my face and demands my phone number.. i asked him what the fuck for and he let me know he was managing on some nights and was supposed to get a roster and the girls numbers. I asked who taught him manners and told him not to treat a lady like that.. and again.. walked off and avoided this joke for the rest of the night..
Which leads to tonight.. his first night as manager.. his night to exercise the limited amount of power he had .. his night to shine as an example to diminutive men everywhere..
I walked up and asked for a drink , since management usually takes care of a couple rounds for me when i work on slow/dead nights. To which he responded that i was trying to be "gangsta" and "run all over him". This was the first time he and i had shared more words than his original ignorant introductions so im not sure how i was ever giving the opportunity to run all over him, but here i was being called names and being accused of things.
At this point i still know my place as an employee and was being as polite and cordial as possible and i told him i would just text the manager (real manager but i didnt say that) and ask him for some comps since he wasnt familiar with the routine, had he have said no i would have just bought my own, but like i said a few drinks comped on nights like this for me is not uncommon.
HE got PISSED, said i needed to respect him and not try going around him , said he wasnt going to let me run shit.
When i came back to get a drink , he was standing there and asked me, "What kind of relationship do we have?" I said , None! This is a job.. we dont have a relationship! At which point he took his knee and slammed it into my freshly tattooed knee.. then proceeded to tell me how tattoos dont hurt and to "stop whining" and his tattoo artist said "knee tattoos dont hurt"
Something neither him or his tattoo artist have by the way.
Then tells me when i get my other knee done hes gonna hit me in that one too.. I told him if he did i wouldnt be responsible for my actions because i was going to just hit him in the face next time he tried to beat on me, ESPECIALLY right after getting tattooed
So what does this man amongst men do then? Tells me i cant knock him out and begins telling me if he hits my knee i better not hit him or HE wont be responsible for what HE does..
I avoided him the rest of the night..
When i asked him if i could leave i said as nicely as i could to this piece of trash "Can i go home now, its kinda dead?" And the icing on the cake to the night was his "Yea.. fucking YEA!" response..
The sad part about all this... is this whole story could be wrapped up in a handshake.. i feel like he properly communicated how much of a douche bag he was and his inability to do well in a social environment , and treat women with respect.. the first time he shook my hand.
If a man feels compelled to squeeze your hand like a mongoloid neanderthal, he has nothing more to offer you than the strength he just asserted.. and if he squeezes a womans hand like that?
Hes not worth the sperm his father wasted on creating him.
Really, what does it prove to yourself of others when you grip with vice like fury? That your lack of social etiquette has left you alone on so many nights that your right forearm has the strength of 10 average men with personalities and sex lives?
When a man grips my hand like hes trying to crush a soft fruit, all i can think of is the fruit he is acting like. Are you trying to (fail) assert some alpha male dominance? Are you trying to let me know your stronger and more powerful than me and therefore more of a man than me?
Im a woman... im not your competition for alpha male dominance.. although in the jungle the biggest competition is for the best mates.. so maybe my previous comment was a correct assumption and youre just letting me know that im not match for you... and all the hot guys i might be after are all yours for the taking.
And if thats it.. you can have them.. im not going to arm wrestle a man over the man he wants..
Im gonna get a little more personal and tell you the event that provoked this blog.
But first a little side track.. ONCE AGAIN.. you garbage ass minimum wage, no w-2 having ass , get your ass whipped in a real fight ass SECURITY GUARDS need to know your fucking role, you might beat off to UFC videos and get turned on by sweaty dudes in underwear grabbing each other.. but that does NOT make you a tough guy, if you were youd be in a ring paying taxes on your earnings.. not working at walmart during the day and supplementing it with your low powered ego trip of a job title.. there are some really cool, really nice guys who work security and im obviously not talking about you.. but the other 90% of you.. are a fucking joke.. and if youre a security MANAGER.. youre a joke.. telling a joke.. and if youre a security guard ACTING like a manager.. youre a fake ass joke.. telling a joke.. and its.. well.. you win.. you.. really are funny.
So this midget ass 5'7 ish security guard started at this club i work at occasionally, the first time we met he did the typical napoleon complex handshake where he nearly got on his tippy toes to eek out that 5'9 he might just pull off.. pushed his shoulder in.. hip forward and gripped my hand like it was his roomates penis, and then proceeded to squeeze and shake it just the same..
REALLY?!? Is all i can think.. i called him the first name that came to mind , laughed at his pathetic and ignorant attempt to assert himself and went on with my night.
The next night he walks up to me and shoves his phone in my face and demands my phone number.. i asked him what the fuck for and he let me know he was managing on some nights and was supposed to get a roster and the girls numbers. I asked who taught him manners and told him not to treat a lady like that.. and again.. walked off and avoided this joke for the rest of the night..
Which leads to tonight.. his first night as manager.. his night to exercise the limited amount of power he had .. his night to shine as an example to diminutive men everywhere..
I walked up and asked for a drink , since management usually takes care of a couple rounds for me when i work on slow/dead nights. To which he responded that i was trying to be "gangsta" and "run all over him". This was the first time he and i had shared more words than his original ignorant introductions so im not sure how i was ever giving the opportunity to run all over him, but here i was being called names and being accused of things.
At this point i still know my place as an employee and was being as polite and cordial as possible and i told him i would just text the manager (real manager but i didnt say that) and ask him for some comps since he wasnt familiar with the routine, had he have said no i would have just bought my own, but like i said a few drinks comped on nights like this for me is not uncommon.
HE got PISSED, said i needed to respect him and not try going around him , said he wasnt going to let me run shit.
When i came back to get a drink , he was standing there and asked me, "What kind of relationship do we have?" I said , None! This is a job.. we dont have a relationship! At which point he took his knee and slammed it into my freshly tattooed knee.. then proceeded to tell me how tattoos dont hurt and to "stop whining" and his tattoo artist said "knee tattoos dont hurt"
Something neither him or his tattoo artist have by the way.
Then tells me when i get my other knee done hes gonna hit me in that one too.. I told him if he did i wouldnt be responsible for my actions because i was going to just hit him in the face next time he tried to beat on me, ESPECIALLY right after getting tattooed
So what does this man amongst men do then? Tells me i cant knock him out and begins telling me if he hits my knee i better not hit him or HE wont be responsible for what HE does..
I avoided him the rest of the night..
When i asked him if i could leave i said as nicely as i could to this piece of trash "Can i go home now, its kinda dead?" And the icing on the cake to the night was his "Yea.. fucking YEA!" response..
The sad part about all this... is this whole story could be wrapped up in a handshake.. i feel like he properly communicated how much of a douche bag he was and his inability to do well in a social environment , and treat women with respect.. the first time he shook my hand.
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
How to ruin a great night at a nice Venue, just add shit personal, and douche repeatedly.
Im gonna give the good first.. because i will be the last to say last night wasnt one of the most fun nights i have had in tampa. PERIOD.
We went to The Venue , which is deceptively large inside, despite its myriad of odd walls and passageways dividing the building into a sort of common room surrounded by pod like areas of over looks, and vip like sections. The club was beautiful, the light show was very nice for a resident lighting system, and the music system was great, not too loud in some areas and barely hear able in others like some venues.. im not going to say the building itself has opera like acoustics.. but for what it is.. the sound was great, AND they have a nice, working, a/c system, which for us is always a really nice plus.
The event last night was Drummer vs Dj .. a battle of analog vs digital via Red Jumpsuit Apparatus' drummer Jon Wilkes beating a live cadence to Dj Capones mystery selection of mixes and cuts. Its definitely a sight to see, and if you like any of the Travis Barker rock remixes on youtube, then seeing it live is a 1000% times better... as if the concept alone isnt cool enough to hold your attention.. having a well known rockstar drummer battling a Dj who is just this side of a DMC PHENOM sold the concept into a solid solid show. Visually a 10, and it left you wanting a cd of the event.
The promoter dropped the ball on the original show which as supposed to be an afterparty for Warped Tour , which was hideously un promoted , but the group offered to stay and extra night to make it right and, the club graciously picked up the ball where the promoter dropped it and made things right with the DJ/Drummer combo. Which gives me alot of respect for whoever pulled the trigger on getting them back last night. Thank you Venue for an awesome experience.
Now.. the bad.. and as GOOD as the GOOD was.. the bad was as BAD.
It started at valet, last time we came to the Venue a pair of sunglasses was stolen from our unlocked car, a quick google search will point out that this isnt the first time this has happened, and most likely not the last, so we made sure we put all our valuables in the trunk before showing up,in case valet left it casually unlocked a second time. Those who know ANYTHING about me have seen my car and know that its a site to behold and usually parked at the front door of anywhere we go, its a fair trade, its and attention getter for them.. and i get quality parking. Well here is our first $7.00 an hour superstar we ran into, we pulled up to valet and the guy tells us its $5, not a problem but we retort that last time our car was left unlocked and we would like it parked up front, we say , ill give you $10 this time, but you need to put it where you can see it, hand him about $13 since there was a bunch of ones on us, he agrees.. points to an empty spot behind him and says ill park it in the second row, and he takes off in the car.
Cut to when we pick it up.. its 15 cars down from the front of the club and on the 5th? row i believe.. HARDLY parked up front. But at least this time it was locked and in good condition and nothing was missing.. so .. i guess we will call this one a draw. But i digress because we dont know this yet.
The next issue we see quickly, is that we were told by the person we called , and the website, that the club has a "casual chic" dress code.. no hats, tees, tanks, tennis shoes, shorts, or holey pants...
Not a problem.. but 2 of the people with us are on tour and living out of their wardrobe so sneakers were their only option..although we figured in new True Religions and Burberry tops we could pass for compliant. Once we showed up and made our way to the door, the flash of chrome and plastic baubles affixed to the trendiest (in the 90s) tshirts miami thrift stores has to offer , assaulted our senses. Here we are being told there is a dress code, but Johnny Nobody is here in his Fashion by ROSS affliction shirt and some dirty, uhh.. i mean "classic" nikes.
Hardly the avante garde we were led to believe.. There is nothing wrong with a tshirt and sneakers club, just dont pretend like you are something else and let the people who follow rules show up over dressed , while the people in the spandex unitards and balet flats or the black guy in ankle shorts who has been on the dance floor in a tank top all night do whatever the hell they wanna do.
So then this is the part that really seems to be a Tampa issue in general, and im going to cut off for a second to tell you this, SECURITY, its illegal for you to do ANYTHING out of your job title, when you act in a form of overt aggression or you do something that proceeds in a damaging way. Youre not doing your job, youre outside of your realm of responsibilities and youre just another asshole in the club. When you grab somebody from behind in a form of aggression, thats not being a security guard, thats being an asshole, and i know at LEAST one "employee" last night , who if it were not for respect for the club itself and its amazing managerial staff, was about to get fucked up in that dark ass room you were in.
Putting on a black shirt and collecting a menial paycheck does not make you a superhero, and you might go home and beat off to Roadhouse, but when you grab the wrong guy, the wrong way and he ruins any chance you have of a career that involves walking long distances, standing for extended periods of time , or speaking without a lisp... youll know.. i promise.
I saw personally one security guard tell someone they could use a restroom , and upon touching the door was told by another security guard right next to him that he needed to "get the fuck out of here" While shining a flashlight in his eyes like he was some drug interdiction officer on COPS, even the room we were in , was flushed out by a team of security personnel, shining flashlights and moving in a manner as to flush us out like a pack of roaches. There are 2 or 3 more issues i seen with this facet of the staff but to point them all out one by one would only infuriate me and make me want to go and get names.
So after security flushes us out of our private section at 2:30am , its our first time here.. and the lights were still off, so if this is normal, then fine, but we were given no warning aside from the , too fat to be a trainer, too soft to be a fighter, too short to play sports, too ignorant to get a real job mirepoix of black shirted morons thinking they were S.W.A.T. shining led torches in our faces.
I wanna be clear here.. NO ONE said anything to us, one minute we were partying, the next minute we had flashlights in our eyes and were being told "MOVE". Same as when Dj Capone was standing on the booth trying to give a girl a shot, and a security guard yelled "hey" and when he didnt turn around SNATCHED him by his shirt down off of it. Granted, maybe he shouldnt have been standing there, but shouldnt job one to be to tap him first? Not snatch him a down? Youre NOT a tough guy.. i promise.. but you ALMOST met one last night.. YOU should be thankful for felony probation because it stopped a very sober very capable person from teaching you a lifetime of manners.
So now the lights are on.. i want to ask if i can have one more drink.. its 2:44 at this time, i ask the bartender.. and this.. is as close as i can get to an accurate word for word quote
Me "What time is last call?"
Him "No"
Me "What.... time is last call?"
Him "No"
Me "What.... time... is... last call?"
Him "No"
Me "Ok well so i know.. what time is last call"
Him (while counting his tips) "I said NO"
Me "So... i cant have a drink fine.. what time is last call"
Him "2:45"
Me "What time is is now?"
Him"2:44 but i just closed me drawer"
So yea.. the show AWESOME, the managment? The venue itself? Music , sounds lights?!?! ALL AMAZING . But i will never be back, because nothing ruins a perfect spot like a shitty staff.. and The Venue.. seems to have a nice solid collection.
We went to The Venue , which is deceptively large inside, despite its myriad of odd walls and passageways dividing the building into a sort of common room surrounded by pod like areas of over looks, and vip like sections. The club was beautiful, the light show was very nice for a resident lighting system, and the music system was great, not too loud in some areas and barely hear able in others like some venues.. im not going to say the building itself has opera like acoustics.. but for what it is.. the sound was great, AND they have a nice, working, a/c system, which for us is always a really nice plus.
The event last night was Drummer vs Dj .. a battle of analog vs digital via Red Jumpsuit Apparatus' drummer Jon Wilkes beating a live cadence to Dj Capones mystery selection of mixes and cuts. Its definitely a sight to see, and if you like any of the Travis Barker rock remixes on youtube, then seeing it live is a 1000% times better... as if the concept alone isnt cool enough to hold your attention.. having a well known rockstar drummer battling a Dj who is just this side of a DMC PHENOM sold the concept into a solid solid show. Visually a 10, and it left you wanting a cd of the event.
The promoter dropped the ball on the original show which as supposed to be an afterparty for Warped Tour , which was hideously un promoted , but the group offered to stay and extra night to make it right and, the club graciously picked up the ball where the promoter dropped it and made things right with the DJ/Drummer combo. Which gives me alot of respect for whoever pulled the trigger on getting them back last night. Thank you Venue for an awesome experience.
Now.. the bad.. and as GOOD as the GOOD was.. the bad was as BAD.
It started at valet, last time we came to the Venue a pair of sunglasses was stolen from our unlocked car, a quick google search will point out that this isnt the first time this has happened, and most likely not the last, so we made sure we put all our valuables in the trunk before showing up,in case valet left it casually unlocked a second time. Those who know ANYTHING about me have seen my car and know that its a site to behold and usually parked at the front door of anywhere we go, its a fair trade, its and attention getter for them.. and i get quality parking. Well here is our first $7.00 an hour superstar we ran into, we pulled up to valet and the guy tells us its $5, not a problem but we retort that last time our car was left unlocked and we would like it parked up front, we say , ill give you $10 this time, but you need to put it where you can see it, hand him about $13 since there was a bunch of ones on us, he agrees.. points to an empty spot behind him and says ill park it in the second row, and he takes off in the car.
Cut to when we pick it up.. its 15 cars down from the front of the club and on the 5th? row i believe.. HARDLY parked up front. But at least this time it was locked and in good condition and nothing was missing.. so .. i guess we will call this one a draw. But i digress because we dont know this yet.
The next issue we see quickly, is that we were told by the person we called , and the website, that the club has a "casual chic" dress code.. no hats, tees, tanks, tennis shoes, shorts, or holey pants...
Not a problem.. but 2 of the people with us are on tour and living out of their wardrobe so sneakers were their only option..although we figured in new True Religions and Burberry tops we could pass for compliant. Once we showed up and made our way to the door, the flash of chrome and plastic baubles affixed to the trendiest (in the 90s) tshirts miami thrift stores has to offer , assaulted our senses. Here we are being told there is a dress code, but Johnny Nobody is here in his Fashion by ROSS affliction shirt and some dirty, uhh.. i mean "classic" nikes.
Hardly the avante garde we were led to believe.. There is nothing wrong with a tshirt and sneakers club, just dont pretend like you are something else and let the people who follow rules show up over dressed , while the people in the spandex unitards and balet flats or the black guy in ankle shorts who has been on the dance floor in a tank top all night do whatever the hell they wanna do.
So then this is the part that really seems to be a Tampa issue in general, and im going to cut off for a second to tell you this, SECURITY, its illegal for you to do ANYTHING out of your job title, when you act in a form of overt aggression or you do something that proceeds in a damaging way. Youre not doing your job, youre outside of your realm of responsibilities and youre just another asshole in the club. When you grab somebody from behind in a form of aggression, thats not being a security guard, thats being an asshole, and i know at LEAST one "employee" last night , who if it were not for respect for the club itself and its amazing managerial staff, was about to get fucked up in that dark ass room you were in.
Putting on a black shirt and collecting a menial paycheck does not make you a superhero, and you might go home and beat off to Roadhouse, but when you grab the wrong guy, the wrong way and he ruins any chance you have of a career that involves walking long distances, standing for extended periods of time , or speaking without a lisp... youll know.. i promise.
I saw personally one security guard tell someone they could use a restroom , and upon touching the door was told by another security guard right next to him that he needed to "get the fuck out of here" While shining a flashlight in his eyes like he was some drug interdiction officer on COPS, even the room we were in , was flushed out by a team of security personnel, shining flashlights and moving in a manner as to flush us out like a pack of roaches. There are 2 or 3 more issues i seen with this facet of the staff but to point them all out one by one would only infuriate me and make me want to go and get names.
So after security flushes us out of our private section at 2:30am , its our first time here.. and the lights were still off, so if this is normal, then fine, but we were given no warning aside from the , too fat to be a trainer, too soft to be a fighter, too short to play sports, too ignorant to get a real job mirepoix of black shirted morons thinking they were S.W.A.T. shining led torches in our faces.
I wanna be clear here.. NO ONE said anything to us, one minute we were partying, the next minute we had flashlights in our eyes and were being told "MOVE". Same as when Dj Capone was standing on the booth trying to give a girl a shot, and a security guard yelled "hey" and when he didnt turn around SNATCHED him by his shirt down off of it. Granted, maybe he shouldnt have been standing there, but shouldnt job one to be to tap him first? Not snatch him a down? Youre NOT a tough guy.. i promise.. but you ALMOST met one last night.. YOU should be thankful for felony probation because it stopped a very sober very capable person from teaching you a lifetime of manners.
So now the lights are on.. i want to ask if i can have one more drink.. its 2:44 at this time, i ask the bartender.. and this.. is as close as i can get to an accurate word for word quote
Me "What time is last call?"
Him "No"
Me "What.... time is last call?"
Him "No"
Me "What.... time... is... last call?"
Him "No"
Me "Ok well so i know.. what time is last call"
Him (while counting his tips) "I said NO"
Me "So... i cant have a drink fine.. what time is last call"
Him "2:45"
Me "What time is is now?"
Him"2:44 but i just closed me drawer"
So yea.. the show AWESOME, the managment? The venue itself? Music , sounds lights?!?! ALL AMAZING . But i will never be back, because nothing ruins a perfect spot like a shitty staff.. and The Venue.. seems to have a nice solid collection.
Sunday, July 31, 2011
Pastry ass Backlava , Phyllo sheet wrapped ass Croissant ass Bitches!!
... So im gonna jump right in here.. you can catch up as we go.. but.. i GUESS im a rarity...
Who knew?!?!
Im one of those people who counts checks before theyre cashed. Im one of those people who actually gives a shit about peoples time and efforts and good graces.
Weird huh?
Im one of those girls who shows up 10 minutes early and READY to work.. not 5 minutes late and looking for a place to GET ready, im one of those people who calls you when i get caught by one too many redlights , just to let you know im gonna be pulling in a few seconds late.
BUT.. it gets better.. my schedule is IN FUCKING SANE.. and occasionally shit happens.. but this is easily solved by a basic hierarchical system.. IF I MADE PLANS WITH YOU ON WEDNESDAY THEN YOU.. my friend.. ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE PLANS I MAKE ON FRIDAY..
I thought this shit was pretty simple.. If you and me make plans to go to the beach.. and the night before .. i confirm with you.. then morning of.. you tell me youre getting ready after I call.. .
Then after waiting 2 hours .. i call again.. .to find out you made totally different plans.. and didnt have the fucking respect not to tell anyone.. YOU HAVE A PROBLEM.. not me.
I might have told someone i dont wanna go drink dom and eat caviar on a yacht off the coast of paradise key.. because I PROMISED A BEACH DAY WITH YOU!!!.. Why the fuck dont i deserve to pick option :B: the OBVIOUS BETTER OPTION.. just because YOU cant call someone and cancel appropriately..
And work.. wow.. work.. you would think that professionalism would at least exist there.. but NO
And yes .. this is about YOU..but YOU dont call YOU out and neither will i..
I had a shoot booked.. a week ago.. then the date or time was moved.. over.. and over.. and over.. and over.. till tonight.. im supposed to shoot with someone at 6:45pm
I WAS going to do a much larger and higher paying shoot at 10am. be done by noon and go to warped tour after.. but .. because of this shoot.. i moved the larger one to 4-6 cancelled on warped tour and prepared to work with you..
Then.. after MY day has been altered to shit.. and YOU have changed cast call over and over again.. and I passed up passes to stand on stage at Drummer vs Dj at warped tour with the drummer of red jumpsuit ( my buddy john) i get a call at damn near FOUR OCLOCK lettting me know.. that your shit is cancelled. .but "Dont worry about it.. we all have to make adjustments"
FUCK YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
Seriously.. what the fuck happened to respect? WTF happened to YOUR WORD IS YOUR BOND?
Fuck all that..
What happened to common decency?
Is it really dead? Do we really live in an age where.. "Ill see you monday at 10" Means.. "make plans for me.. but reality.. fuck you ill get there when i please"?!?
This isnt the most eloquent thing ive written in my live im sure.. but spell correct keeps screaming at me because im shaking im so pissed..
Im walking out the door to go to work now.. I WILL be on time.. more than likely early.. and ready to work.
Fuck anyone who doesnt get that.
Britt
Who knew?!?!
Im one of those people who counts checks before theyre cashed. Im one of those people who actually gives a shit about peoples time and efforts and good graces.
Weird huh?
Im one of those girls who shows up 10 minutes early and READY to work.. not 5 minutes late and looking for a place to GET ready, im one of those people who calls you when i get caught by one too many redlights , just to let you know im gonna be pulling in a few seconds late.
BUT.. it gets better.. my schedule is IN FUCKING SANE.. and occasionally shit happens.. but this is easily solved by a basic hierarchical system.. IF I MADE PLANS WITH YOU ON WEDNESDAY THEN YOU.. my friend.. ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE PLANS I MAKE ON FRIDAY..
I thought this shit was pretty simple.. If you and me make plans to go to the beach.. and the night before .. i confirm with you.. then morning of.. you tell me youre getting ready after I call.. .
Then after waiting 2 hours .. i call again.. .to find out you made totally different plans.. and didnt have the fucking respect not to tell anyone.. YOU HAVE A PROBLEM.. not me.
I might have told someone i dont wanna go drink dom and eat caviar on a yacht off the coast of paradise key.. because I PROMISED A BEACH DAY WITH YOU!!!.. Why the fuck dont i deserve to pick option :B: the OBVIOUS BETTER OPTION.. just because YOU cant call someone and cancel appropriately..
And work.. wow.. work.. you would think that professionalism would at least exist there.. but NO
And yes .. this is about YOU..but YOU dont call YOU out and neither will i..
I had a shoot booked.. a week ago.. then the date or time was moved.. over.. and over.. and over.. and over.. till tonight.. im supposed to shoot with someone at 6:45pm
I WAS going to do a much larger and higher paying shoot at 10am. be done by noon and go to warped tour after.. but .. because of this shoot.. i moved the larger one to 4-6 cancelled on warped tour and prepared to work with you..
Then.. after MY day has been altered to shit.. and YOU have changed cast call over and over again.. and I passed up passes to stand on stage at Drummer vs Dj at warped tour with the drummer of red jumpsuit ( my buddy john) i get a call at damn near FOUR OCLOCK lettting me know.. that your shit is cancelled. .but "Dont worry about it.. we all have to make adjustments"
FUCK YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
Seriously.. what the fuck happened to respect? WTF happened to YOUR WORD IS YOUR BOND?
Fuck all that..
What happened to common decency?
Is it really dead? Do we really live in an age where.. "Ill see you monday at 10" Means.. "make plans for me.. but reality.. fuck you ill get there when i please"?!?
This isnt the most eloquent thing ive written in my live im sure.. but spell correct keeps screaming at me because im shaking im so pissed..
Im walking out the door to go to work now.. I WILL be on time.. more than likely early.. and ready to work.
Fuck anyone who doesnt get that.
Britt
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Why are you so racist?
Seriously.. why?
Im not talking about socio-racism , finding humor in stereotypes, telling the occasional off color joke , or thinking when you see a box chevy on 32s painted to look like a kelloggs cereal box it MUST be full of more drugs than the Amy Winehouse autopsy paperwork, im talking about genuine racism.
Here are some examples.. and dont you fucking DARE blame religion, with over 20 major religions .. there are over 30,000 different breeds of Christianity alone.. and according to humanist structure.. we all deserve to find God on our own path, which would mean there is over 6 BILLION interpretations of religion on this planet. So.. until we respect Voodoo and Satonism as a faith and respect THEIR traditions.. lets not pretend like we are being religiously compassionate.
So that being said.. How come the muslim immigrant at Walmart gets to wear a hat at work? A workplace that says NO HEADWEAR ON THE CLOCK...
But Joe.. the soldier who took a bullet in the side of his skull while defending our country.. the man who retired into a shitty economy got the only job he could get.. and works next to her at walmart.. the only difference..
Is he CANT wear a hat to cover his scar... because HE has to follow the rules.
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Has anyone seen this shit on tv.. call.. 1-866-XXX-XXXX to contact black singles in your area?
Im not gonna mention B.E.T. but.. yea.. that shits racist as fuck.
Affirmative action.. was a good idea.. but executed poorly as fuck.. should i REALLY have to hire an UNDER-QUALIFIED minority.. and turn down applications jut because im not meeting my AA quota?! So this isnt racist.. because.. only the white man gets turned down for the job?
_______________________________________________
Martin Lawrence says in Wild Hogs "Stupid ass cracker " and "You cracker asses" ....
Im talking about the fact a black actor/actress can say the word cracker till he is blue in the face on any pg 13 movie he/she wants to and not affect the rating scale one iota..
And music? Dont even START on music.. where every piece of black talent can scream anything they want from cracker , spick , nigger, honky, and its NOTHING.. worst case that one word gets edited before the local radio station blasts it to our kids ears.. but let it be flipped.. let a comedian cuss out a black heckler and say nigger.. and suddenly its on CNN and he has to do community service and public apologies and will NEVER work again.
This shit is a joke..
You white girls dating black guys who listen to him say nigga to his friends like it was just another word, but wouldnt be caught dead saying it around him.. i dont car WHO youre fucking.. YOURE A RACIST
Publicists who produce McDonalds commercials with a family full of kids at a table and wont pull the trigger on production until you have a spanish kid a black kid and an asian at the table.. IF ITS WHITE PARENTS.. but would have NO problem shooting it with all black kids.. YOURE A RACIST
If you hire the black guy.. because he is black.. YOURE A RACIST i dont give a fuck what affirmative action says.
If you tell racist jokes, or make fun of stereotypes.. im not gonna judge you.. but if you ONLY DO IT AROUND YOUR WHITE FRIENDS.. and then walk off and pretend like you and the black dude you work with are cool.. YOURE A RACIST
Im just ranting here and you all might not love it... but... in the end.. i just wanna see people quit pretending like they want equality.. and then keep making tongue in cheek rules laws and actions that support the same racist ass shit they claim to want to abolish.
Im not talking about socio-racism , finding humor in stereotypes, telling the occasional off color joke , or thinking when you see a box chevy on 32s painted to look like a kelloggs cereal box it MUST be full of more drugs than the Amy Winehouse autopsy paperwork, im talking about genuine racism.
Here are some examples.. and dont you fucking DARE blame religion, with over 20 major religions .. there are over 30,000 different breeds of Christianity alone.. and according to humanist structure.. we all deserve to find God on our own path, which would mean there is over 6 BILLION interpretations of religion on this planet. So.. until we respect Voodoo and Satonism as a faith and respect THEIR traditions.. lets not pretend like we are being religiously compassionate.
So that being said.. How come the muslim immigrant at Walmart gets to wear a hat at work? A workplace that says NO HEADWEAR ON THE CLOCK...
But Joe.. the soldier who took a bullet in the side of his skull while defending our country.. the man who retired into a shitty economy got the only job he could get.. and works next to her at walmart.. the only difference..
Is he CANT wear a hat to cover his scar... because HE has to follow the rules.
________________________________________________
Has anyone seen this shit on tv.. call.. 1-866-XXX-XXXX to contact black singles in your area?
Im not gonna mention B.E.T. but.. yea.. that shits racist as fuck.
Affirmative action.. was a good idea.. but executed poorly as fuck.. should i REALLY have to hire an UNDER-QUALIFIED minority.. and turn down applications jut because im not meeting my AA quota?! So this isnt racist.. because.. only the white man gets turned down for the job?
_______________________________________________
Martin Lawrence says in Wild Hogs "Stupid ass cracker " and "You cracker asses" ....
Im talking about the fact a black actor/actress can say the word cracker till he is blue in the face on any pg 13 movie he/she wants to and not affect the rating scale one iota..
And music? Dont even START on music.. where every piece of black talent can scream anything they want from cracker , spick , nigger, honky, and its NOTHING.. worst case that one word gets edited before the local radio station blasts it to our kids ears.. but let it be flipped.. let a comedian cuss out a black heckler and say nigger.. and suddenly its on CNN and he has to do community service and public apologies and will NEVER work again.
This shit is a joke..
You white girls dating black guys who listen to him say nigga to his friends like it was just another word, but wouldnt be caught dead saying it around him.. i dont car WHO youre fucking.. YOURE A RACIST
Publicists who produce McDonalds commercials with a family full of kids at a table and wont pull the trigger on production until you have a spanish kid a black kid and an asian at the table.. IF ITS WHITE PARENTS.. but would have NO problem shooting it with all black kids.. YOURE A RACIST
If you hire the black guy.. because he is black.. YOURE A RACIST i dont give a fuck what affirmative action says.
If you tell racist jokes, or make fun of stereotypes.. im not gonna judge you.. but if you ONLY DO IT AROUND YOUR WHITE FRIENDS.. and then walk off and pretend like you and the black dude you work with are cool.. YOURE A RACIST
Im just ranting here and you all might not love it... but... in the end.. i just wanna see people quit pretending like they want equality.. and then keep making tongue in cheek rules laws and actions that support the same racist ass shit they claim to want to abolish.
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Why do bitches think that they wont get hit?
..... and not just Females.. but BITCHES.. why does someone think they can talk shit.. push.. spit on.. throw shit at.. steal from.. other people and not have to pay for it?
Its the worst i have ever seen it in my life here in Tampa but i feel like its a nationwide epidemic. Do we really live in such a litigious society that people think they can just disrespect people up and to the point of assault, because todays person feels like the worst that will happen is you will beat their ass and they will sue? I genuinely want some feedback on this because.. i dont get it.
A little about me.. when im not doing commercial print or video work , i dance.. its filler time for when i travel.. and its extra work at home if things are slow. BUT i work at this really upscale, Steak House/Gentleman's club its not full nude and its the number 1 non-nude payout in Tampa..
So.. we all know there is a game to strip clubs but, its just another club.. Im not a stripper, this doesnt define me.. and as easy as i would think guy is hot as a teller at bank of america.. i can find a guy attractive here.. i mean i still gotta do my job .. and i AM here to pay bills.. but im dressed up and feeling sexy and we are all drinking.. so sometimes.. when a girl flirts.. she is actually flirting..
The difference is... i like to keep the flow going.. you dont HAVE to spend $100 to get me to sit and talk to you (but thank you!! <3s). But if you and i have shut off work and are chilling like we were on a date.. well... i want my date to get me a lapdance. .and a drink .. and some money to throw.. and normally (Girls Listen) if a guy is having fun and his wallet is open he will keep it open..
Common sense right?
But these bitches DONT GET IT....(now guys) these girls think you are going to single handedly finance their education(lol)... TONIGHT.. with the money you have ON YOU.. and you are going to spend ever penny on HER and she would rather you close your wallet and sit on it than to give another girl the time of day..
This week alone.. i have had girls tell customers im married.. my ass is fake.. my hair is fried.. i stink..
Which is all true.. but still....
lol i kid i kid!!!
But i literally had to put a girl on her ass last night because she was first harassing one of my close friends.. like.. would not take no for an answer.. then when they threw some money for me on stage.. went back over there and told them "Dont waste your time shes married" .. first off they were my friends and they know my relationship status well enough they dont need to hear about it from someone who doesnt know me... secondly.. whether i am or not.. why would you try to close his wallet for him? There were 5 of them.. what if the one who drove was the only one digging me.. and i was the only girl there he was feeling.. So now you chased him off.. and he took his friends with him.. WHO WINS IN THAT SITCH??
Thats when i said something and in typical Tampa fashion she called me out, said some stupid shit to me.. and when i got back in her face.. she did nothing.. but kept talking about how she was going to beat my ass all night.. So .. now.. youre mad at ME.. for you.. offending a customer.. my friend.. and trying to cock block my money? So when she walked by and jabbed me with a catty ass elbow.. i hit her in the throat and threw her on her ass. So she gets up and starts talking again... about how shes gonna beat me up.. uhmm .. i just put you on your butt and you didnt do shit.. so why talk about it now?!?
I just see this kinda thing too often.. not just in the strip club.. just people being an asshole and talking tough.. when they really want NOTHING to do with it.. its corny.
As far as the club goes.. imma be honest... if i were to make a $1000 a night but i had to be like them and be... miserable.. and hate being there.. have to stab girls in the back... then have them stab me.. and have to do some of the shit some of them do to make money....
Or we could ALL make $500 a night and LOVE my job.. and not have to be a back stabbing whore to do it?
Id take the pay cut.
Its the worst i have ever seen it in my life here in Tampa but i feel like its a nationwide epidemic. Do we really live in such a litigious society that people think they can just disrespect people up and to the point of assault, because todays person feels like the worst that will happen is you will beat their ass and they will sue? I genuinely want some feedback on this because.. i dont get it.
A little about me.. when im not doing commercial print or video work , i dance.. its filler time for when i travel.. and its extra work at home if things are slow. BUT i work at this really upscale, Steak House/Gentleman's club its not full nude and its the number 1 non-nude payout in Tampa..
So.. we all know there is a game to strip clubs but, its just another club.. Im not a stripper, this doesnt define me.. and as easy as i would think guy is hot as a teller at bank of america.. i can find a guy attractive here.. i mean i still gotta do my job .. and i AM here to pay bills.. but im dressed up and feeling sexy and we are all drinking.. so sometimes.. when a girl flirts.. she is actually flirting..
The difference is... i like to keep the flow going.. you dont HAVE to spend $100 to get me to sit and talk to you (but thank you!! <3s). But if you and i have shut off work and are chilling like we were on a date.. well... i want my date to get me a lapdance. .and a drink .. and some money to throw.. and normally (Girls Listen) if a guy is having fun and his wallet is open he will keep it open..
Common sense right?
But these bitches DONT GET IT....(now guys) these girls think you are going to single handedly finance their education(lol)... TONIGHT.. with the money you have ON YOU.. and you are going to spend ever penny on HER and she would rather you close your wallet and sit on it than to give another girl the time of day..
This week alone.. i have had girls tell customers im married.. my ass is fake.. my hair is fried.. i stink..
Which is all true.. but still....
lol i kid i kid!!!
But i literally had to put a girl on her ass last night because she was first harassing one of my close friends.. like.. would not take no for an answer.. then when they threw some money for me on stage.. went back over there and told them "Dont waste your time shes married" .. first off they were my friends and they know my relationship status well enough they dont need to hear about it from someone who doesnt know me... secondly.. whether i am or not.. why would you try to close his wallet for him? There were 5 of them.. what if the one who drove was the only one digging me.. and i was the only girl there he was feeling.. So now you chased him off.. and he took his friends with him.. WHO WINS IN THAT SITCH??
Thats when i said something and in typical Tampa fashion she called me out, said some stupid shit to me.. and when i got back in her face.. she did nothing.. but kept talking about how she was going to beat my ass all night.. So .. now.. youre mad at ME.. for you.. offending a customer.. my friend.. and trying to cock block my money? So when she walked by and jabbed me with a catty ass elbow.. i hit her in the throat and threw her on her ass. So she gets up and starts talking again... about how shes gonna beat me up.. uhmm .. i just put you on your butt and you didnt do shit.. so why talk about it now?!?
I just see this kinda thing too often.. not just in the strip club.. just people being an asshole and talking tough.. when they really want NOTHING to do with it.. its corny.
As far as the club goes.. imma be honest... if i were to make a $1000 a night but i had to be like them and be... miserable.. and hate being there.. have to stab girls in the back... then have them stab me.. and have to do some of the shit some of them do to make money....
Or we could ALL make $500 a night and LOVE my job.. and not have to be a back stabbing whore to do it?
Id take the pay cut.
Friday, June 17, 2011
Ok.. so its been a minute.. but immmm baacckkkkkkkk...
I havent written lately been super busy, but here is a brief, whats-what of whats been up..
1: I tried out for "BadGirls Club", i went to Gainseville to the open casting, and let me say this, if i knew it was going to be tryouts for "The Real HoodRats of Florida" i wouldnt have wasted the time it took to put the gas in the car.. much less the time it took to drive all the way up to Gator country...
First off i LOVE bad girls club, i love the drama i love the action, i love the cute girls running around a mansion in their underwear drunk in front of camera!! But this.. mess.. that was there.. the untrimmed , kandy painted eagle talon nails, the prismatic hair weaves, the spongebob squarepants racing jackets.. the screaming at each other and trying to fight a the security.. at the door.. in the middle of the day.. in the middle of the road... thanks.. but no.. this is one call back im genuinely glad i didnt get, all the way home i was debating making the drive back up there the next day if i did get the call, but fortunately that decision was made for me. It was a genuine disappointment, and if it was a sign of how the season is going to be, i will NOT have my dvr set to record, if i want to watch a bunch of trash argue with each other it wont be in a mansion in LA it will be on Springer.
2: So my car was wrecked under mysterious circumstances , i tried to report it stolen , and was told i couldnt, even though there was no driver in the car and no idea who was in it when it was wrecked, this happened in FEBRUARY.. so now.. 4 months later.. and $5000.00 in rental car payments.. insurance dropping me, and $1700 in stuff insurance isnt covering, im HOPING to get my car back next week!!! FUCK TAMPA.. if anyone is even thinking about coming here for more than just a short visit.. i recommend seeing a professional, ask him why you have such self destructive tenancies.
3. IM moving moving, back , back , to cali.. to cali.. I declined an extension on my lease, im moving into a temporary corporate housing spot, and waiting it out til september, then im running full tilt back to the Left coast, i already started selling all my big stuff.. If it wont fit in a 4x8 trailer or my car.. im leaving it here.. time for a new start!!!
1: I tried out for "BadGirls Club", i went to Gainseville to the open casting, and let me say this, if i knew it was going to be tryouts for "The Real HoodRats of Florida" i wouldnt have wasted the time it took to put the gas in the car.. much less the time it took to drive all the way up to Gator country...
First off i LOVE bad girls club, i love the drama i love the action, i love the cute girls running around a mansion in their underwear drunk in front of camera!! But this.. mess.. that was there.. the untrimmed , kandy painted eagle talon nails, the prismatic hair weaves, the spongebob squarepants racing jackets.. the screaming at each other and trying to fight a the security.. at the door.. in the middle of the day.. in the middle of the road... thanks.. but no.. this is one call back im genuinely glad i didnt get, all the way home i was debating making the drive back up there the next day if i did get the call, but fortunately that decision was made for me. It was a genuine disappointment, and if it was a sign of how the season is going to be, i will NOT have my dvr set to record, if i want to watch a bunch of trash argue with each other it wont be in a mansion in LA it will be on Springer.
2: So my car was wrecked under mysterious circumstances , i tried to report it stolen , and was told i couldnt, even though there was no driver in the car and no idea who was in it when it was wrecked, this happened in FEBRUARY.. so now.. 4 months later.. and $5000.00 in rental car payments.. insurance dropping me, and $1700 in stuff insurance isnt covering, im HOPING to get my car back next week!!! FUCK TAMPA.. if anyone is even thinking about coming here for more than just a short visit.. i recommend seeing a professional, ask him why you have such self destructive tenancies.
3. IM moving moving, back , back , to cali.. to cali.. I declined an extension on my lease, im moving into a temporary corporate housing spot, and waiting it out til september, then im running full tilt back to the Left coast, i already started selling all my big stuff.. If it wont fit in a 4x8 trailer or my car.. im leaving it here.. time for a new start!!!
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Go to the Movies or Pay the Light Bill? Which to do
I went to see #FastFive yesterday, with my son and his friend.
The movie was great by the way but thats beside the point.
We pay the $5 to park, then get in line and pay for the three $14.00 tickets , in the middle of the freaking day , get inside and pay for two $4.75 sodas and a $7.00 bag of popcorn to go with our $3.75 bag of candy.. so here i am at $62.50
Yea no discount for childrens tickets (my sons 4) for IMAX , sony digital or 3D movies.
So after gas figure it cost me $65.00 to see a fucking movie?!?!?!
And here the whole time movie makers and theaters and even my PS3 are working their ass off to stop piracy, citing pirated movies for lost ticket revenue???
KNOCK KNOCK!!!
Its not piracy scaring people away.. its the fact that a mom trying to take two kids to see a midday movie cant do so without accepting a price similar to my freaking light bill!!
And if piracy is hurting things soooo bad.. then how come EVERYTHING goes platinum now and movies are breaking records like it was a hobby?!?
But thats beside the point, the only thing im trying to say here is that in an economy where the average income in America for a female working fulltime is $33,000 with the average household income hovering at $46,000
Thats ( .2%) of the average female income.. i know.. ( .2% ) isnt HUGE.. but.. FORRRR A MOVIE?!?!?!?
The movie was great by the way but thats beside the point.
We pay the $5 to park, then get in line and pay for the three $14.00 tickets , in the middle of the freaking day , get inside and pay for two $4.75 sodas and a $7.00 bag of popcorn to go with our $3.75 bag of candy.. so here i am at $62.50
Yea no discount for childrens tickets (my sons 4) for IMAX , sony digital or 3D movies.
So after gas figure it cost me $65.00 to see a fucking movie?!?!?!
And here the whole time movie makers and theaters and even my PS3 are working their ass off to stop piracy, citing pirated movies for lost ticket revenue???
KNOCK KNOCK!!!
Its not piracy scaring people away.. its the fact that a mom trying to take two kids to see a midday movie cant do so without accepting a price similar to my freaking light bill!!
And if piracy is hurting things soooo bad.. then how come EVERYTHING goes platinum now and movies are breaking records like it was a hobby?!?
But thats beside the point, the only thing im trying to say here is that in an economy where the average income in America for a female working fulltime is $33,000 with the average household income hovering at $46,000
Thats ( .2%) of the average female income.. i know.. ( .2% ) isnt HUGE.. but.. FORRRR A MOVIE?!?!?!?
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
I came home to this rant on Fb from one of my friends.
Paulina Chinkova god the stupidity of people just amazes me.. there are fuckin idiots out there who think that just cuz they have a beemer, or live in a house on the water, and have all kinds of expensive shit that they are something special.. guess what mo...ney can burn, its a piece of paper.. but memories and thoughts and happiness is something that lasts for ever.. some ppl need to seriously REEVALUATE their way of thinking.. i have many friends who have expensive things, but because they enjoy them rather then become their slave, they have a happy life, and guess what even if those things are gone, they will still be ok! so im leaving yall in the words of mr T- check yoself foo! shit isnt all that srious.. jesus if only HALF OF YOU actually stoped and read this and listened to it, AND APPLY IT i guarantee you will improve your quality of life and thinking BY 100%!!! and maybe you won't be so worried bout what ur so called "friends" think bout the fact that ur riding around in a 97 altima, as opposed to an '11 beemer, since if they do that they are probably NOT ur friend anyway... STICK THIS IN YOUR JUICEBOX AND FUCKIN SUCK IT!Paulina Chinkova lolol.. i was kidding bout the religion thing vedad, and justing... what does my profily pic have to do with the comment?? its two chicks enjoying eachothers company on the beach.. whats materialistic about that? lol and vanja- i love bimme...rs! i have many friends w them that enjoy em but IF they just so happen to crash it, its not the end of the world, as to i also have friends who if they do crash theirs, THEY WOULD DIE LOL... im not hating, im just saying, ENJOY it, dont BECOME it! JOC.. F U LOLOL
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I Agree 10,000% (although you do ramble like an 86 ford escort)
I wrote alot of stuff here, then deleted it to save some feelings, Paulina We love you , Cheer up its almost cruise time.
lolol.. i was kidding bout the religion thing vedad, and justing... what does my profily pic have to do with the comment?? its two chicks enjoying eachothers company on the beach.. whats materialistic about that? lol and vanja- i love bimme...rs! i have many friends w them that enjoy em but IF they just so happen to crash it, its not the end of the world, as to i also have friends who if they do crash theirs, THEY WOULD DIE LOL... im not hating, im just saying, ENJOY it, dont BECOME it! JOC.. F U LOLOL
Saturday, April 23, 2011
Strip Clubs and Married men, Lack of Trust or Lack of Morals?
So i was getting tattooed today and i had to hear a man say he wasnt allowed to go into strip clubs. I know this might be common to some people but in the relationships i have been in, it makes me wonder why?
Im sure some prudish girls can insert 100 reasons here, why they wouldnt want their man in one, but to every one of those reasons i would have to still ask, Why?
Because you dont trust him? Well then you dont need to be together.
So lets eliminate every reason YOU, had based on trust, because in my opinion, if you cant trust him, the strip clubs are the LEAST of your problems.
You dont want him looking at other girls? Get a clue princess, if he had nothing in the house better to beat off to he would stroke it to Hannah Montana. So him going out with his guys to have a few drinks in a strip club , OR NOT , is NOT going to make him only want you.... sorry.
Think he is going to take one home? Or get some kinda attention there you wont give him?
Well theres 2 answers to this..
A: if you feel like he needs to be seaking attention elsewhere,maybe instead of expecting everyone else to tone it down, maybe you should up your fucking game, since its YOU feeling like hes not getting the attention he needs in the first place.
B: Lets be serious , if your man was looking for pussy, he would be at a nightclub where he can multiply his chances buy the hundreds NOT at a strip club bothering some girl at work like he was out looking for a date.
I have personally seen some of the couples who this is an issue with to. Its not like its some strapping , muscle bound, well put together man , in a healthy relationship , that these girls have issues with, its chick worried her average ass un-effing-happy man is gonna go out and find something better.... AT A STRIP CLUB??!!?!?!?
Lets be honest, and this might offend a friend or two, but, if shes at a strip club, and shes really hot, and really cool to chill with, and has her head on straight.... she probably has a fucking man at home anyway and isnt interested in more than a few dollars of your mans paycheck.
So....
Now that we have that out of the way, and the reasons have been narrowed down to YOU dont trust him and dont need to be together anyway, or YOU live in a fantasy land and think he only fantasizes about the 8x10 glossy on the wall yall took last xmas, or YOU think he is going to go in there and come out with Better, or hell, think he is gonna come out of there with anything at all.
Sounds like the issues are all about YOU.
And as a matter of fact... i think he can do much better..
He seems like a great guy, to be putting up with your shit...
You know what.. maybe you SHOULD be worried...
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Friday, April 22, 2011
Hooters FAIL, "Rules? We dont got no stinking Rules"
So this might not bother many of you but to the Hooters girls from corporate cities, im sure this will "grind your gears". I went to Hooters today in south Tampa and was punched in the face by what i saw.
Let me first say the food was good, typical Hooters fare and the service was prompt and courteous so this is NOT a bash on the food quality or the girls themselves.
Nope, this is in reference to what i guess is a dying sorority , Hooters where i come from was fun , it had a strict code , that was enforced with fierce determination and it created a bond that made being a Hooters girl something you took home with you.
A Hooters girl where i was from had to be polished, fat, thin, tall , short, attractive or not, you were at least polished to the point of Hooters perfection. You stood in line before a shift and your nails hair and makeup had to be on par with the image the brand represented or you could go home till you figured it out.
And this isnt even to mention the extra curricular songs dance and theme that went into it.
We were a sorority more than a restaurant and i liked it.
This is why today offended me so much , in as much as going from a local greek house to something out of town and seeing your fellow sisters let your name down, this Hooters did the same thing to me, had this been a chapter of a fraternal order i would have hid my colors in shame and called a chapter leader the moment i left.
Chipped green nail polish greeted us at our table and earings that im sure looked good on the shelf at claires the size of a nickle , matched only by the 2 or 3 more in her ear behind it, wasnt even the worst of it. Hair ties on nearly every wrist to match the thick cheap black, reds and purple watches, the collection was endless since it seemed nearly every waitress had their own opinion of the watch that matched her uniform best,(none). But at least i can say that the barrage of necklaces were easy to overlook, since after this Tarrentio-esce monstrosity wrapped around this waitresses throat made all of the other neck jewelry pale in comparison.
And... to top it off.. this waitresses hair.. was died the EXACT same color as the Hooters Medium wing Sauce... yea.. the picture does not do justice to how orange her hair was, i couldnt decide if i was at Hooters or Hot Topic.
Hooters has been around since 1983 and carved a niche into our food service market that is indelible, the book is there for a reason, Hooters has a bible so to speak of what it means to be part of this sorority a set of rules a code, and with the amount of money that goes into research and development of this brand, a brand that is obviously not sold on average priced wings or cheap beer, a brand that is carried on the back of the girls who make it what it is, it DOESNT need a cheap necklace or your opinion of what a NATURAL hair color is to make it work.
So do me a favor managers, do me a favor corporate, DO YOUR JOB, this 18 year old waitress isnt responsible for looking like an 18 year old girl while shes at work, shes just being an 18 year old girl. Its YOUR JOB to enforce this stuff its YOUR job to make HOOTERS, Hooters and as much as your laziness is killing the experience for ME as a customer, youre really taking away from the girls too, because they will NEVER be able to experience Hooters as the sisterhood it was designed to be, until YOU let them know it was SUPPOSED to be.
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Thursday, April 21, 2011
Are all dog owners this gross and disrespectful or just my neighbors?
I wake up at 9am to some mutt barking loudly through my wall, this doesnt bother the owner since they arent home, so the barking will continue, ALL DAY.
And as if this wasnt bad enough, i live in a loft community with the largest private dog park i have ever seen, its seriously like 3/4 of a city block, and still people let their dogs piss and shit in the sitting areas and small flowery alcoves in our hallways, now today, i look out by our pool, because im sitting here with my door open enjoying the breeze, and suddenly get punched in the face by this putrid smell like raw sewage, and see these two dogs playing, BY THE POOL, and SHITTING feet away from my back porch, THE POOL. A private NO DOGS area.
I will NEVER live in a pet friendly complex again, these people are fucking nasty.
And as if this wasnt bad enough, i live in a loft community with the largest private dog park i have ever seen, its seriously like 3/4 of a city block, and still people let their dogs piss and shit in the sitting areas and small flowery alcoves in our hallways, now today, i look out by our pool, because im sitting here with my door open enjoying the breeze, and suddenly get punched in the face by this putrid smell like raw sewage, and see these two dogs playing, BY THE POOL, and SHITTING feet away from my back porch, THE POOL. A private NO DOGS area.
I will NEVER live in a pet friendly complex again, these people are fucking nasty.
Hung Over Today but gonna blog anyway.... lol.. look i rhymed.. ima Rapper
HAHA I had no idea what i wanted to talk about today until that lil happy accident of a title, this isnt gonna be as liberal as yesterday but its something that bothers me nonetheless.
RAP
ok.. so im sure i typed that and all sorts of assumptions jumped into your mind, but i assure you, this isnt about that.
This is something really simple.. and im going to leave this open because i really would like some sort of sensible answer to this...
How come when i listen to a radio station that claims to play the "Best HipHop and RnB" i hear Plies,or Soulja Boy or about 50 million others, who are not in any way shape or form HipHop, sure they may be great rappers.. but HIPHOP?!?! I thought HipHop was intelligent or political or poetic, stuff like Common, or even Drake (to some extent), dont get me wrong, i listen to EVERYTHING , but on NO planet is Waka or GunPlay HIPHOP!!!
And while im asking for opinions on the misnaming of music.. how come if i go to a TOP40 night at a club, its 100% Rap? I would think, a top40... night.. would.. PLAY TOP 40.. and im 100% positive that rap , while it might take up a majority of the list at times , is NOT the entirety of the Billboard top 40 chart.
So ring in, let me know how you feel about this, i feel like i would like to be able to listen to a hiphop station or go to a hiphop show and listen to some back packing, graffiti spraying, opinionated HIPHOP, or even go to a TOP 40 club and occasionally here some of the rock OR EVEN COUNTRY that OBVIOUSLY was in the top40 songs this week, month or year.
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RAP
ok.. so im sure i typed that and all sorts of assumptions jumped into your mind, but i assure you, this isnt about that.
This is something really simple.. and im going to leave this open because i really would like some sort of sensible answer to this...
How come when i listen to a radio station that claims to play the "Best HipHop and RnB" i hear Plies,or Soulja Boy or about 50 million others, who are not in any way shape or form HipHop, sure they may be great rappers.. but HIPHOP?!?! I thought HipHop was intelligent or political or poetic, stuff like Common, or even Drake (to some extent), dont get me wrong, i listen to EVERYTHING , but on NO planet is Waka or GunPlay HIPHOP!!!
And while im asking for opinions on the misnaming of music.. how come if i go to a TOP40 night at a club, its 100% Rap? I would think, a top40... night.. would.. PLAY TOP 40.. and im 100% positive that rap , while it might take up a majority of the list at times , is NOT the entirety of the Billboard top 40 chart.
So ring in, let me know how you feel about this, i feel like i would like to be able to listen to a hiphop station or go to a hiphop show and listen to some back packing, graffiti spraying, opinionated HIPHOP, or even go to a TOP 40 club and occasionally here some of the rock OR EVEN COUNTRY that OBVIOUSLY was in the top40 songs this week, month or year.
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Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Those assholes in front of planned parenthood should have been aborted!!
Why is it that i cant ride down a public street without seeing old fat women with nothing better to do with their life than to stand there harassing women for the decisions that they make over their own bodies?
This isnt about whether im pro choice or anti choice that is a subjective matter entirely and i think thats exactly the point, i dont feel like i should impose my personal beliefs onto someone elses body.
I feel like im straying from the point though, the point isnt that these piles of ignorance are standing out side of the clinics, my point is that they are willing to do these stands against abortion and berate these women for trying to fix something they obviously see as a mistake, something adults are expected to do daily, my point is where were these soldiers of the unspoken when these women were making the decisions who put them there in the first place? Why isnt this slob outside of the club handing out condoms? Why isnt sister sarah sitting outside of Victorias Secret bothering women about the dangers of casual sex? Or at our highschoools preaching to our kids about abstaining?
Why?
Because its easier to talk shit about your neighbors lawn than it is to help mow it.
These people arent HELPING anyone in there obnoxious and annoying stands they create in front of these businesses (that provide MUCH more than termination services). If they were, it wouldnt bother me so bad, the issue is they are just there to complain about YOU , to coerce YOU to be more like them, since their way is obviously the just, and right way. Pull up to one of these clinics and ask the people holding signs how many of them have tried to adopt children, how many of them are running shelters for homeless and neglected children, how many of them are actually part of the solution, and not just sitting on their fat ass holding a cheap ass sign.
Britt
This isnt about whether im pro choice or anti choice that is a subjective matter entirely and i think thats exactly the point, i dont feel like i should impose my personal beliefs onto someone elses body.
I feel like im straying from the point though, the point isnt that these piles of ignorance are standing out side of the clinics, my point is that they are willing to do these stands against abortion and berate these women for trying to fix something they obviously see as a mistake, something adults are expected to do daily, my point is where were these soldiers of the unspoken when these women were making the decisions who put them there in the first place? Why isnt this slob outside of the club handing out condoms? Why isnt sister sarah sitting outside of Victorias Secret bothering women about the dangers of casual sex? Or at our highschoools preaching to our kids about abstaining?
Why?
Because its easier to talk shit about your neighbors lawn than it is to help mow it.
These people arent HELPING anyone in there obnoxious and annoying stands they create in front of these businesses (that provide MUCH more than termination services). If they were, it wouldnt bother me so bad, the issue is they are just there to complain about YOU , to coerce YOU to be more like them, since their way is obviously the just, and right way. Pull up to one of these clinics and ask the people holding signs how many of them have tried to adopt children, how many of them are running shelters for homeless and neglected children, how many of them are actually part of the solution, and not just sitting on their fat ass holding a cheap ass sign.
Britt
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